Delaying orgasm is the most ancient secret to cure premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation is a big and serious problem among men all around the world. It is very common for a man who is frustrated with coming too soon to totally abandon his sex life. Delaying orgasm is actually easier than you think. When you master this technique, you will get back your marvelous sex life.
During intercourse, men basically go through a 4-stage process. First stage is the Excitement Stage, this is when you begin to get an erection and your breathing becomes heavier. Next, the Plateau Stage, your arousal escalates and your erection goes into full swing. This builds into the next phase – the Orgasm Stage that is accompanied by an ejaculation. At the Final Stage, you will lose erection and breathing falls back to normal.
The best way to last longer in bed is delaying ejaculation and prolong Plateau Stage where you keep yourself at a heightened phase of arousal without tipping over into an orgasm and ejaculation.
Below are some tips that many of my friends have found useful, and would likely do great for you too!
- Reduce alcohol consumption. Alcohol can numb your senses and affect your level of consciousness that is crucial to developing better ejaculatory control.
- Focus on “wholeness sensuality” instead of “genital sexuality”. Your most important sex organ is not between your legs. Sex is not all about your penis, but should be enjoyed and appreciated from head to toe. Pay more attention to every hot button in our body. This applies to you and your partner. This takes pressure off your genitals helps release bodily tension and makes love making more pleasurable and longer too.
- Total relaxation. Do things together with your partner, such as taking hot, sensual bath together. Warm water will relax every muscle in your body and provides an alternative outlet for tension release instead of ejaculating involuntarily during sex.
- Woman on top position is the best choice in delaying ejaculation. With this position, you will be able to relax and therefore will be able to control your ejaculation better. The other advantage of this position is that most female will reach orgasm faster with this position Be adventurous, some guys ejaculate longer in certain position, find your best position.
Delaying orgasm could become your only way out to stop premature ejaculation. Check out Matt Gorden’s “The Ejaculation Trainer” to once and for all get your great sex life back.
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